Much has been written about communicating with deceased loved ones, and I am not going to try to cover
the topic in any detail here. Please refer to the books and links at the end of this section.
Briefly, communication with deceased
loved ones cannot be forced. Obsession will only block your attempt. Relax and let go. Don't complicate the process. Soulful
signs from our deceased loved ones are all around us if we look for them. Messages will come in simple forms, like a familiar
smell or a loving thought, and little things do mean something. There are no coincidences.
You may have to wait
until the powerful emotions of acute grief subside for your loved one to get through, but welcome their presence when they
From Healing After Loss by Martha Whitmore Hickman,
Perennial Press, 1994, December 12 entry:
...as we dwell in memory on our experiences with the one who is physically gone, his or her
psychic presence, rather than being confined to the body we knew and loved, seems somehow to expand and surround us with its
gentle understanding, its compassion and love.
So we enter upon different kinds of conversations, often exchanges
without words. We seem to come to a mutual understanding and appreciation for the goodness and the difficulty we were in each
other's life. We're able to smile...at all the flurry, and to relish, instead, the deep love and peace. Dear One, continue
to be with me, as I will with you.
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